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340:75-15-132. Mutual Consent Voluntary Registry
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Revised 7-12-01


     The Department is required by Section 7508-1.2 of Title 10 of the Oklahoma Statutes to maintain a Mutual Consent Voluntary Registry.  The Mutual Consent Voluntary Registry is a service to facilitate contact between adult adoptees or adults whose birth parents' parental rights were terminated and their birth family members. This service is limited to adoptions and termination of parental rights proceedings completed in Oklahoma.  Individuals eligible to register on the Mutual Consent Voluntary Registry may indicate their willingness to have their identity and whereabouts disclosed to each other and contact can be facilitated.   • 1

  • (1) Persons eligible to register.  The register is open to any person who is now 18 years of age or older who is:
    • (A) an adult adopted person;
    • (B) an adult person who has a parent whose parental rights have been terminated;
    • (C) the adoptive parents or guardian of an adopted person who is under the age of 18 or who has been declared mentally incompetent;
    • (D) the legal parent or guardian of any minor child or mentally incompetent minor of the adopted person, if the adopted person is deceased;
    • (E) any adult descendant of the adopted person if the adopted person is deceased;
    • (F) the legal parent or guardian of any minor or mentally incompetent child of a deceased person whose biological parent's parental rights have been terminated;
    • (G) the adult descendants of a deceased person whose biological parent's parental rights have been terminated;
    • (H) a parent whose parental rights were voluntarily terminated by court order subsequent to the parent's consent or relinquishment, or involuntarily terminated by court order, in an adoption, juvenile, guardianship, or domestic relations proceeding;
    • (I) an adult biological relative of an adopted person or a person whose biological parent's parental rights have been terminated; or
    • (J) the legal parent or guardian of a minor or a person who has been declared mentally incompetent whose biological parent's parental rights have been terminated.
  • (2) Persons ineligible to register.  Persons ineligible to register are:
    • (A) an adult adopted person who has a minor biological sibling in the same adoptive family or in an adoptive or foster family or other placement whose location is known to the adult adopted person;
    • (B) an adult whose biological parent's parental rights have been terminated and who has a biological sibling in the same family or in an adoptive or foster family or other placement whose location is known to that adult; or
    • (C) a person whose adoption or termination of parental rights proceedings did not occur in Oklahoma.
  • (3) Registration.  An eligible person may register by submitting a completed Oklahoma Mutual Consent Voluntary Registry, Form DCFS-22 (new form number 04CI002E), provided by the Department of Human Services State Office Adoption Section.
  • (4) Retention of records.  Any affidavits filed and other information collected is retained for 22 years following the date of registration.

INSTRUCTIONS TO STAFF 340:75-15-132

 

Revised 12-15-11

 

1.   (a) Matching registrant with eligible persons.  The registrant's consent to an exchange of identifying information is obtained on Form 04CI004E, Consent to Disclosure, before any identifying information is released.  No state or local governmental department, agency or institution, or contractor, or any employee thereof, may solicit consent for the release of identifying information from someone who has not registered with the registry. 

(b) Reunion counseling.  Pre-consent counseling is provided by a Children and Family Services Division (CFSD) Post-Adoption Section registry Administrator to ensure the person has an understanding of the implications of disclosure.  All available non-identifying updated information is obtained in relation to each party and given to each party after one or more interviews with each party.  Issues discussed with a birth relative or adopted person during counseling and prior to release of identifying information includes, but is not limited to, (1) - (4) of this subsection. 

(1) Motivation.  What is the most important issue to the birth relative or adopted person?  Is it a sense of identity, roots, or medical information? Is the birth relative or adopted person seeking a parental relationship?

(2) Expectation.  What kind of relationship does the birth relative or adopted person expect or hope will develop?  Are the expectations realistic?  Has the birth relative or adopted person considered potential problems if the expectations are not met?

(3) Other family members.  How will the reunion affect other members of the birth relative or adopted person's immediate and extended family? What are the adoptive parents' attitudes and what are the issues related to the attitudes?

(4) Initial contact.  How would the birth relative or adopted person like to proceed with a reunion?  An exchange of letters and photographs may precede the meeting.

(c) Consent to disclosure.  Once counseling has been provided and the birth relative or adopted person is ready to proceed, identifying information may be shared between parties.  Identifying information can only be shared with the parties involved in the reunion.

(d) Reunion.  A joint decision about how to proceed with the reunion is reached during the reunion counseling.  The birth relative and adopted person may choose to telephone each other, write letters, send pictures, or have a meeting.  The registry administrator is not expected to participate in the reunion meeting.  Post-reunion counseling requests are referred to appropriate resources in the birth relative or adopted person's community.



Last Updated:  12/16/2011
Oklahoma Department of Human Services
Street address: Sequoyah Memorial Office Building, 2400 N. Lincoln Blvd., Oklahoma City, OK 73105
Mailing address: P.O. Box 25352, Oklahoma City, OK 73125
(405) 521-3646
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