1. (a) Matches. The State Office Adoption Section Reunion & Search Administrator processes each affidavit in an attempt to match the registrant with any other eligible persons who have registered and consented to have their identifying information released to the registrant. When a match occurs, the registrant is notified by the registrant's designated method only and the registrant's consent to an exchange of identifying information is obtained on Form DCFS-36 (new form number 04CI004E), Consent to Disclosure, before any identifying information is released. No state or local governmental department, agency or institution, or contractor, or any employee thereof, shall solicit any consent for the release of identifying information from someone who has not registered with the registry. If a birth relative, other than a birth parent, registers with the Mutual Consent Voluntary Registry, the administrator of the registry ascertains from the State Registrar of Vital Statistics whether an affidavit of nondisclosure by a birth parent is on file. If such an affidavit is filed and has not been revoked, the administrator does not process a match with any birth relative of the parent who filed the affidavit of nondisclosure.
(b) Reunion counseling. The pre-consent counseling will be provided by State Office Adoption Section Reunion and Search Administrator. The purpose of the counseling is to ensure that the person has an understanding of the implications of disclosure. All available non-identifying updated information should be obtained about each party and given to the client. The following are suggested as issues to be raised and discussed with a birth relative or adopted person during counseling and prior to release of identifying information. This process usually requires one interview with each party.
(1) Motivation. What is the most important issue to them? Is it a sense of identity, roots, or medical information? Are they seeking a parental relationship?
(2) Expectation. What kind of relationship do they expect or hope will develop? Are these expectations realistic? Have they considered potential problems if their expectations are not met?
(3) Other family members. How will the reunion affect other members of the immediate and extended family? Explore issues of adoptive parents' attitudes.
(4) Initial contact. Explore how they would like to proceed with a reunion. An exchange of letters and photographs may precede the meeting.
(c) Consent to disclosure. Once counseling has been provided and the client is ready to proceed, identifying information may be shared between parties. Identifying information can only be shared with the parties of the reunion.
(d) Reunion. The actual reunion should be discussed during the counseling with the parties reaching a joint decision about how to proceed. They may choose to telephone each other, write letters, send pictures or choose to have a meeting. The counselor is not expected to participate in the meeting. Requests for post reunion counseling should be referred to an appropriate resource in the community.